Question for the girls!!!!

COUME · 1 Jul 2002, 05:04 AM

Hello,
as some known I'm actually in Ibiza.
Yesterday when clubbing in a not famous club in an hard house night... Therefore went there with my UV stuff, etc...
I was the only one with the official dancer(a girl) dress like that...
Within 3-4 min on the podium (I like podium! lol), 6 english girls, just came with me, play a bit as slappers... and then where all happy to take them in picture with me...

Therefore now is my question

Girls, do you often ask people that you don't know to take picture of them with you, just to show your friend when you come back? Or is it only an english stuff??? I found this weird...
Anyway would like to have some comments or point of view about that topic which is definetely another topic than emails...

See Ya
Ludo

COUME · 1 Jul 2002, 05:05 AM

lol, I just become an essential contributor with this last post!
Yeah that's a great contribution to the forum

lol

Ludo

Liz · 2 Jul 2002, 12:15 AM

Undoubtedly.

Liz

**psalzer** · 2 Jul 2002, 12:55 AM

I've never encountered that, unless the person is a celebrity or was memorable in some way. Maybe you were just memorable?

COUME · 2 Jul 2002, 01:16 AM

lol I don't think that I was memorable!
There was having much more handsome guy than me I think ...
And I was not off my face... just a very common guy on a podium...
Ok my trousers can be a bit memorable for some people, but they didn't take a picture of it! lol

Anyway, I'm quite happy to see that it is not a common thing for girls to do so

ludo

**munchkin** · 2 Jul 2002, 01:18 AM

Hehe, sounds like you are having a great time.

Oh, and I have never noticed that either ...

COUME · 2 Jul 2002, 01:24 AM

Yeah munchkin, I'm having a good time out there

And I will definetely think now that these girls were perhaps a bit drunk or was thinking that I was famous!
As long as I don't looks like Rowan Atkinson (Mr Bean) or the prince Charles.... That's allright for me

Ludo
P.S: Munchkin if you want a postcard, pv me your address and I will post you one. For thanking you to have answer all my questions that I had ask you in pv msg!

Bamb0 · 2 Apr 2026, 02:42 AM

Im not a girl but I wouldnt want my picture taken PERIOD!!

Im very private and dont like many pictures being taken..

Tsunami · 7 Apr 2026, 05:38 AM

I don't know if we have any female members left on the forum. Most forums have a gender icon (which is optional on most forums), but here this is not the case.

I don't mind being photographed, but I'm a man. It is of course more polite to ask first, but generally I wouldn't mind.

I think a lot depends on context. I perform my arts on stage, so it would be odd to then refuse being photographed. If I choose to be on a stage in front of an audience, being photographed is part of the deal. Usually even the organiser takes photos of all performers during the night.

I'm curious now what the sex ratio would be on this forum. It seems some active female members of the past have left or only post sporadically.

Bamb0 · 7 Apr 2026, 02:34 PM

Tsunami · 20 Apr 2026, 10:18 PM

Indeed!

But is she the only female on this forum left?

Bamb0 · 21 Apr 2026, 01:35 AM

Is Sherry and psalzer still alive??

I thought someone told me years ago Sherry passed on... I hope they meant someone else!!

hadaso · 21 Apr 2026, 04:34 AM

This site is approximately 26 years old, so I guess some of the original members must have passed away, as we all will when our time comes.
However I guess most of those that don't come here anymore just lost interest.

Bamb0 · 21 Apr 2026, 01:21 PM

Its sad thinking about that

Tsunami · 27 Apr 2026, 11:26 PM

Maybe the forum needs to make some advertisement again for itself, because I truly value the information that I find on this forum. I also still believe a real theme-specific forum is much nicer than a Facebook group about a certain subject.

So I think this forum, after all these years, is still fantastic and offers truly valuable information. Maybe some effort has to be made to attract some new members. Although without exagerating, to avoid an overflow of people with little to no knowledge about email.

I joined in 2004 when I was 22 years old.

22 years later (and older) I still post and read here regularly.

Ad for female members: SusanUKF used to post here very frequently, I haven't seen her in ages.
I would assume though that some people simply lost interest (for example because they found the email provider that matches all their needs and no longer search for alternatives) ; there will be members who have passed away but let's just be positive and assume the majority has just lost interest in the forum.

I still see newly registered users now and then, so this shows the forum is still relevant.

1 Jul 2002, 05:04 AM	#1
COUME Master of the @ Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: Twickenham, UK Posts: 1,306	Question for the girls!!!! Hello, as some known I'm actually in Ibiza. Yesterday when clubbing in a not famous club in an hard house night... Therefore went there with my UV stuff, etc... I was the only one with the official dancer(a girl) dress like that... Within 3-4 min on the podium (I like podium! lol), 6 english girls, just came with me, play a bit as slappers... and then where all happy to take them in picture with me... Therefore now is my question Girls, do you often ask people that you don't know to take picture of them with you, just to show your friend when you come back? Or is it only an english stuff??? I found this weird... Anyway would like to have some comments or point of view about that topic which is definetely another topic than emails... See Ya Ludo

7 Apr 2026, 02:34 PM	#10
Bamb0 The "e" in e-mail Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: USA Posts: 2,365	I think most of us are Males....... We still have Lisa and she has been a big help!!! Last edited by Bamb0 : 7 Apr 2026 at 02:35 PM. Reason: Thank you Lisa!!

21 Apr 2026, 01:35 AM	#12
Bamb0 The "e" in e-mail Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: USA Posts: 2,365	Is Sherry and psalzer still alive?? I thought someone told me years ago Sherry passed on... I hope they meant someone else!! Last edited by Bamb0 : 21 Apr 2026 at 01:20 PM.

1 Jul 2002, 05:05 AM	#2
COUME Master of the @ Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: Twickenham, UK Posts: 1,306	lol, I just become an essential contributor with this last post! Yeah that's a great contribution to the forum lol Ludo

2 Jul 2002, 12:15 AM	#3
Liz The "e" in e-mail Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Los Angeles,CA Posts: 4,652 Representative of: Runbox.com	Undoubtedly. Liz

2 Jul 2002, 12:55 AM	#4
psalzer Moderator Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: Long Island, NY Posts: 2,654	I've never encountered that, unless the person is a celebrity or was memorable in some way. Maybe you were just memorable?

2 Jul 2002, 01:16 AM	#5
COUME Master of the @ Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: Twickenham, UK Posts: 1,306	lol I don't think that I was memorable! There was having much more handsome guy than me I think ... And I was not off my face... just a very common guy on a podium... Ok my trousers can be a bit memorable for some people, but they didn't take a picture of it! lol Anyway, I'm quite happy to see that it is not a common thing for girls to do so ludo

2 Jul 2002, 01:18 AM	#6
munchkin Moderator Join Date: Nov 2001 Location: Milliways Posts: 1,165	Hehe, sounds like you are having a great time. Oh, and I have never noticed that either ...

2 Jul 2002, 01:24 AM	#7
COUME Master of the @ Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: Twickenham, UK Posts: 1,306	Yeah munchkin, I'm having a good time out there And I will definetely think now that these girls were perhaps a bit drunk or was thinking that I was famous! As long as I don't looks like Rowan Atkinson (Mr Bean) or the prince Charles.... That's allright for me Ludo P.S: Munchkin if you want a postcard, pv me your address and I will post you one. For thanking you to have answer all my questions that I had ask you in pv msg!

2 Apr 2026, 02:42 AM	#8
Bamb0 The "e" in e-mail Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: USA Posts: 2,365	Im not a girl but I wouldnt want my picture taken PERIOD!! Im very private and dont like many pictures being taken..

7 Apr 2026, 05:38 AM	#9
Tsunami The "e" in e-mail Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: in between the bright lights and the far unlit unknown Posts: 2,615	I don't know if we have any female members left on the forum. Most forums have a gender icon (which is optional on most forums), but here this is not the case. I don't mind being photographed, but I'm a man. It is of course more polite to ask first, but generally I wouldn't mind. I think a lot depends on context. I perform my arts on stage, so it would be odd to then refuse being photographed. If I choose to be on a stage in front of an audience, being photographed is part of the deal. Usually even the organiser takes photos of all performers during the night. I'm curious now what the sex ratio would be on this forum. It seems some active female members of the past have left or only post sporadically.

20 Apr 2026, 10:18 PM	#11
Tsunami The "e" in e-mail Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: in between the bright lights and the far unlit unknown Posts: 2,615	Indeed! But is she the only female on this forum left?

21 Apr 2026, 04:34 AM	#13
hadaso Intergalactic Postmaster Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Holon, Israel. Posts: 5,205	This site is approximately 26 years old, so I guess some of the original members must have passed away, as we all will when our time comes. However I guess most of those that don't come here anymore just lost interest.

21 Apr 2026, 01:21 PM	#14
Bamb0 The "e" in e-mail Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: USA Posts: 2,365	Its sad thinking about that

27 Apr 2026, 11:26 PM	#15
Tsunami The "e" in e-mail Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: in between the bright lights and the far unlit unknown Posts: 2,615	Maybe the forum needs to make some advertisement again for itself, because I truly value the information that I find on this forum. I also still believe a real theme-specific forum is much nicer than a Facebook group about a certain subject. So I think this forum, after all these years, is still fantastic and offers truly valuable information. Maybe some effort has to be made to attract some new members. Although without exagerating, to avoid an overflow of people with little to no knowledge about email. I joined in 2004 when I was 22 years old. 22 years later (and older) I still post and read here regularly. Ad for female members: SusanUKF used to post here very frequently, I haven't seen her in ages. I would assume though that some people simply lost interest (for example because they found the email provider that matches all their needs and no longer search for alternatives) ; there will be members who have passed away but let's just be positive and assume the majority has just lost interest in the forum. I still see newly registered users now and then, so this shows the forum is still relevant.